I talked with spinabros via email, and in my opinion he doesn't deserve all this. At least not anymore.

I think he is more than ready and willing to be accepted as a member of this community, and marking him forever with a "scarlet letter" is not the right solution.

Give him a break. You have not to play with him if you don't want to do it, but you could try anyway, just to see if now he's able to make you change your opinion