Thanks for the response -

I have 8 and 10 yr old sons that I want to have play this game, (and I have let them periodically) but I obviously cannot let them play unsupervised because I'm a little concerned about what some people say during the games..let alone in this forum..this is an awesome game and website, but I'm going to have to be very careful with my kids playing here. Maybe I was naive to expect they could...but I was hopeful...

Maybe I'll just make sure they play challenge games against people I know won't do anything offensive...