I have two games with a player (his name is not important) who has almost 200 active games. He seems unable to cope with all of them, so even though he manages to move daily (his last move was 10 minutes ago), our games have been lagging for almost two weeks.

In general I wouldn't complain: it is ok if a player can log in only once a month and the game proceeds very slowly. But I do think it is very bad etiquette to move in some games only, while other games are waiting forever for one's move.

Just my 2 cents.

neko